That is a lot for one word. people use it so much, they forget what it means. People then go to the love that society has placed for us. The Hot girl and cute guy. The physical relations. Fairy tale endings that end in happy love dovey stuff. Love is easy, they say. Well these are all aspects of love but it isn't true love. one of the reasons the world is in shambles is because people do not know how to love. Really love.
This is an acronym my old youth pastor gave to me to describe what love is.
Located in God
Others Focused
Extravagant
So "L". Something as beautiful as true love can only come from God. A person can only have love, the real kind not the glorified Hollywood version, if the love is found out of God.
"O" So this one is pretty self-explanatory. A real love is not focused on you. When you really love a person then you do everything for them. Nothing is done from you. Though this one many people know, lots of people practice selfish love. I love you because I need you. If any of you have ever read Wuthering Heights by Emily Bronte, the love between Heathcliff and Catherine was a selfish love. They were more focused on how the love benefited each other rather than they could do for the one they loved.
"V" Is my favorite. When people think of love they definitely don't think of violent. Soft, cuddly, tender, and mushy. Hollywood version people! Yes, those are all part of love. but true love is violent. Not saying you should go and hit the person you love. But when you love something you are willing to fight for it. Like a mother bear protecting her cubs. Like standing up for what you believe in . True love doesn't just stand by, it takes action.
And finally "e". When you love some, it is extravagant. God stops at nothing to show his love for us. He sent his son to die on the cross. He gave us the bible. He forgives us. He is with us ALWAYS. If that isn't extravagant then I do not know what is. When you truly love someone, you will stop at nothing to show it. You will always be there for them. Extravagant love is never ending. True Love is always.
Love like this.